The holidays can be such a difficult time for families enduring pregnancy and infant loss. My wish this holiday season is that you will find strength and comfort. May your friends and family offer their shoulder and may they lift you up when you feel you can no longer go on without your child(ren).

Even if you have living children, I know the familiar feeling of wishing you could be with all your children. I still remember being angry that she left me here on Earth and even though I wanted to be here for my husband and living son, I still very much wanted to go with her. I wanted to know her. I still do but I am okay. I will be okay.

So, if you are struggling this year, especially during the holidays, please know that you are not alone and that I am here for you…thinking about you and your babies.

Christmas 2014 - Dragonflies for Ruby